Product DescriptionIf you already "get" what it means to be a mature, masculine, confident man who knows what he's doing in life This program came about after several conversations that a friend and I had about the challenges that men face with their Inner Game. I met Dr. Paul at one of my live seminars, and we became fast friends. I think of myself as a "regular" guy who likes to read a lot about "psychology", and I think of Dr. Paul as a "psychologist" who likes to help a lot of "regular guys".
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The program is about developing the mindset that men need to be successful, particularly focused on women, dating and relationships. Many of our problems in relating to other people are caused by having a weak psychological and emotional personal boundary, often viewed as having holes in our boundary.
Expressing preferences also helps build our boundary, and demonstrates it to other people. Women find this very attractive, even if their preferences differ from ours. If you're very bad at expressing preferences, you may feel like you don't have any; in which case you may need to start with arbitrary preferences. I love dogs, I hate cats. Immature boundaries either have holes, or are thick and impermeable.
Mature boundaries have doors that allow us to control what gets in and what does not. Perfectionism is caused by a hole in our boundary, projecting our own faults and internal ideals out onto other people. Characteristics we don't like in other people are projections of our disowned shadow side out onto other people through holes in our boundary. The fix is to explore and accept our shadow side, while strengthening our boundary. We become better integrated and more able to accept these traits both in ourselves and other people.
Lack of confidence stems from a lack of adult experience with rejection; although we often think it's the other way around. Nice Guys also have an excess of conscience and a lack of intuition. The cure is to examine your wounds to find the lessons they teach and develop your intuition.
Making decisions builds intuition, and ultimately confidence. Avoiding decisions undermines confidence and teaches us passivity. Making decisions always builds your experience and therefore helps you develop intuition. Whether a decision turns out to have been good or bad doesn't matter so long as you can learn something from it.
Suffering is when we burn emotional and psychological energy on things that we don't control. Anything outside our boundary is outside our control. Attempting to control other people or situations leads to suffering.
The solution to suffering is to give up the need to control everything outside our boundary. Accept other people and situations the way they are. There is so much more in this program, I've only just scratched the surface. I highly recommend that you get this program from the Double Your Dating site. I struggled for years with low self-esteem, anxiety and a lack of self-confidence before finding a solution that really worked. I created The Confident Man Program to help other men live the life of their dreams.
I also offer 1-on-1 coaching via Skype so if you related to this article contact me about coaching. When I first began studying ' the game ,' all those years ago, I knew nothing of inner game. I got about 6 months in before a mentor - and now very close friend - taught me that I can learn all of the 'tricks' in the book but unless Step 1 - Inner Game, was spot on, I'd be fighting a losing battle for the remainder of my journey.
I'm yet to follow this particular program but D. D is an engaging character and I'm certain that if it has your tick of approval, Graham, that it must have some nuggets of wisdom in it, for sure! Yes; Inner Game is really just another name for Confidence. Cheers, Graham.
I particularly like DD's friend Richard. His journey is amazing and the confidence he shows gives us all hope. I've got his 'mantra' stuck on my mirror and say it every morning. Yeah, I definitely find it more inspiring hearing from guys who lacked confidence to start with, but learned to change their thinking and their way of communicating, than from guys who were obviously brilliant to start with.
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Here are some of the key things that I've learned: Boundaries Many of our problems in relating to other people are caused by having a weak psychological and emotional personal boundary, often viewed as having holes in our boundary.
Making Decisions Making decisions builds intuition, and ultimately confidence. Mastering decision-making leads to freedom and leadership opportunities. Mastering our intellect leads to success.
Anxiety and Courage The cure to anxiety is to exercise courage. Courage is doing the right thing, regardless of how we feel. Courage is not something we have, it's a choice we make, available to us at any time. Suffering Suffering is when we burn emotional and psychological energy on things that we don't control. Categories: Mindset. Tags: anxiety boundaries confidence courage decision making handling rejection inner game suffering. Graham Stoney I struggled for years with low self-esteem, anxiety and a lack of self-confidence before finding a solution that really worked.
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Deep Inner Game
Deep Inner Game teaches us the the core, reasons we lack the confidence or the killer instinct when it comes to approaching and pulling women. The reader will lean and understand how to hone their inner game so that we never fail because of confidence. The title of this eBook, Deep Inner Game, makes it sound so intense and is quite misleading. Like you, I was almost put-off. I would like to demystify the rather ambiguous title, because it can make it sound difficult and you could miss out on an opportunity to change for the better. And that would be a tragic thing indeed. We all think that this programming is what we were born with and is out of our control to change.
Deep Inner Game DVD Set – David DeAngelo and Richard aka Billy
You have to do it. There are people who feel that they have no control over their destiny. They wish women were different, and they wish women responded to them differently. But before you can make any lasting change, you first have to accept that you have a problem. Deep Inner Game delves into the unseen stumbling blocks that frustrate men and prevent them from ever achieving lasting dating success.